1 year on The Forum: From Fan to Disrespected

Charizard632

Charizard632

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Today, I've been on the forum for 1 year.

Since February/March/April, you guys seem to disrespect me and make negative comments about me.

So it's 2 months of being a fan of Mario Party, and then disrespect level of me has fell down.

After all this time, it's a hard time being on the forum; me being, well, a bad guy. Like this.

Forum Shoutbox 11-25-2010
(12:00:44) Grasshopper: .....
(12:01:25) Grasshopper: omg charizard is on
(12:01:27) Grasshopper: run
(12:02:05) Paper_Mario: Who?
(12:04:02) Berrylarry200: WHAT!?!?!?!​?!
(12:04:08) Berrylarry200: NO WAY!
(12:04:29) Berrylarry200: HIDE YO KIDS HIDE YO WIFE HIDE YO HUSBAND

What I honestly feel about that is I'm treated like a villian. I am honestly not a villian. I am a very nice guy that doesn't say mean things. But I do want to stop mean things on places.

It feels like I'm about to destroy the place, but I'm actually not.

I would really appreciate it if you stop making negative comments about me.
I would feel in peace if you don't treat me like a villian.

So for 1 year of me being on the forum, take a break and leave me alone.
 
Paper Mario said:
I was playing when I said: HIDE YO FRIENDS TOO. I said it for lulz. :p
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OMG Charizard; you're doing EXACTLY what HJ and VIP told you not to. Look at Paper Mario's post (he's a new member) like he said, I was joking. I can't believe you took that seriously. Do you know what a joke is?

This is been going on for two long and now you're threating that if you get banned; you'll commit suicide? That's completely retarded.
 
You remind me of an acquaintance who takes things too seriously. And because that person does, I mess with them because of that.
 
Ether said:
Why don't you just find another forum? People obviously don't want you here, so why not just, I don't know, move to another forum, like a Pokemon forum or something? =P Just saying.
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Seriously, this. You're never getting any where with these topics, Charizard. You don't reliaze that you're giving yourself a worse repotation each time you do this. When does it end? I mean, gosh, you even make a big deal when people say "damn" it's just ridiculous. I hate to see members go, but I thinks it's for the best if you just leave. Since it's clear you're not liked and you only pursue drama.
 
Charizard, I have something to say. While I think it is wrong that you are disrespected, you need to either ignore it or leave the forum. In real life I can ignore insults even if they hurt. If you can't do that on a forum, you need to realize that other people's opinions of you don't matter. However, if you want to get your reputation to be better, you can try to have you're sentences make more sense.

For example:
Charizard said:
So it's 2 months of being a fan of Mario Party, and then disrespect level of me has fell down.
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And what do you mean by that? You've been a fan of Mario party since you joined right? And why would being a fan of mario party have anything to do with how much people respect you?

I respect you but you need to just chill. If you can't ignore them, try to find a different forum.
 
Charizard said:
So for 1 year of me being on the forum, take a break and leave me alone.
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You keep bringing this upon yourself. If you'd quit posting about how people "disrespect" you, you'd wouldn't be as disliked. Just post and forget what people say, otherwise it'd be wise to leave. I'm sorry to say that because we'd lose a member, but it's true.  Just act like a forumer and we won't bug you.
 
Spirit15 said:
Just don't make these useless topic, Vip and H-J said that if there was something wrong, just PM them and that's all. There's no need to make this topic.

Lol to Berry. =P
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This, Charizard. This is what you should have done if you have a problem here. Letting the staff know via PM that if you have a problem, the staff is here to help you. There was no need for a topic like this. It's a waste of space and would end up having more disrepect and such.

To sum it up, PM the staff members if you have a problem, don't make a topic about it. The staff can't really help a lot if a topic is made like this. Just PM a staff member and we'll decide on what we can do.

Staff List button -> Send PM

It's really simple to do that.
 
Let's go over your post, shall we?

[quote author=Charizard]
Today, I've been on the forum for 1 year.

Since February/March/April, you guys seem to disrespect me and make negative comments about me.

So it's 2 months of being a fan of Mario Party, and then disrespect level of me has fell down.[/quote]

The reason why you may feel that way is that you have too high of an expectation for others to act seriously. It doesn't really always help if you assume your (let's call it) serious self when others can easily see this as a way of attacking you, and hence victimising you. I also believe you mean In the last sentence that I've quoted here as "...and then the level of respect I've received has fallen."

[quote author=Charizard]After all this time, it's a hard time being on the forum; me being, well, a bad guy. Like this.

Forum Shoutbox 11-25-2010
(12:00:44) Grasshopper: .....
(12:01:25) Grasshopper: omg charizard is on
(12:01:27) Grasshopper: run
(12:02:05) Paper_Mario: Who?
(12:04:02) Berrylarry200: WHAT!?!?!?!​?!
(12:04:08) Berrylarry200: NO WAY!
(12:04:29) Berrylarry200: HIDE YO KIDS HIDE YO WIFE HIDE YO HUSBAND[/quote]

People are having a joke, but this is connected to your prior history. Humans have an uncanny ability to find someone else's weakness and exploit it. Now while I find it a little uncharacteristic of Berry to have said what he did above, the overall feeling of the above is light-hearted. Here, you shouldn't have taken it seriously.

[quote author=Charizard]What I honestly feel about that is I'm treated like a villian. I am honestly not a villian. I am a very nice guy that doesn't say mean things. But I do want to stop mean things on places.

It feels like I'm about to destroy the place, but I'm actually not.[/quote]

If you feel that you are destroying the place with your mere presence, it suggests something wrong with your view of yourself as a member here. The only thing "wrong" (and even then I wouldn't really say so) you've done is perhaps imply that others have committed something wrong and left you feeling worse off - which is true occasionally, I suppose (but I'm normally asleep when this occurs, so...)

In perspective, any "villainous" deeds you may have committed are trumped by others, including one Shield who persistently mocks you. (Try to get the reference.)

[quote author=Charizard]I would really appreciate it if you stop making negative comments about me.
I would feel in peace if you don't treat me like a villian.

So for 1 year of me being on the forum, take a break and leave me alone.[/quote]

This is an example of your invective towards others that is a little inflated. There is some validity here, but you should understand that it works both ways: you may need to take a break and possibly mature a little more (perhaps desensitise your view of yourself and others whilst online); but equally so we may need to review our stance on you as a member, rather than as an object of passing comedy.

To follow up with the others' comments, learn to distance your emotions from the simple enjoyment (though that will need to be nurtured) when you come on. As others have said: don't take everything at face value; if something is disrespectful or not to your liking, complain by all means, but through appropriate channels. Don't demand too much from everyone, since not everyone will live to your expectations.

And that deleted bit that Sushi quoted: if that is the problem, and you feel inclined to take your own life over something as minor as a forum (not even the real world...), then your sense of self is twisted. If you have a need for acknowledgement of your presence, then that also suggests an insecurity of self.

To sum up, I know the anniversary of 1 year on the Forum has not been the pleasantest, you'll need to reform yourself as a person in the world in some positive way. I would encourage you to start organising who on the forum is someone you feel worth listening to, and others who will stop at nothing to irritate you, and then act accordingly. I'm sure you'll eventually grow through this episode, and perhaps it will do you good for the life ahead of you.

Peace. H-J
 
Honestly, this topic should have been a PM directing to an Administrator. You must have a bad reputation against you for someone to not like you. I'm not trying to critize you in any harm. And I see that you want to make friends on this forum. But if someone don't like you, don't force them and try to change yourself so someone will like you. AND YOU HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO TAKE A JOKE.
 
Snowy The Czar said:
Hahahaha.

Shut up and quit bitching about it.

Grow a pair.

H-J: Thanks for completely undermining the above posts with this troll of a post. Grow some empathy, why don't you now? >;(
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THANK YOU.

Christ Almighty, stop crying like a pussy and experience the real world for one damn time instead of making a big deal out of a stupid little forum.
 
@Charizard: u keep bringing it to yoursel, then you overreact and cry in a corner :-\
 
Aegis said:
Snowy The Czar said:
Hahahaha.

Shut up and quit bitching about it.

Grow a pair.

H-J: Thanks for completely undermining the above posts with this troll of a post. Grow some empathy, why don't you now? >;(
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THANK YOU.

Christ Almighty, stop crying like a p**** and experience the real world for one damn time instead of making a big deal out of a stupid little forum.
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Hey, it's that guy who gave Charizard a second chance even though I knew that it was a horrible idea! :D
 
Ether said:
Aegis said:
Snowy The Czar said:
Hahahaha.

Shut up and quit bitching about it.

Grow a pair.

H-J: Thanks for completely undermining the above posts with this troll of a post. Grow some empathy, why don't you now? >;(
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THANK YOU.

Christ Almighty, stop crying like a p**** and experience the real world for one damn time instead of making a big deal out of a stupid little forum.
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Hey, it's that guy who gave Charizard a second chance even though I knew that it was a horrible idea! :D
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I thought he would mature up and shit but apparently it was a huge mistake.
 
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